Love, Hate, and Forgiveness

There are three thing that all people know but might not understand. Love, hate, forgiveness. I have three points and I will cover all three in the next couple paragraphs.
     Love is probably the most comlex feeling us humans will feel.  Love is not something you can force on someone, love isn't even a feeling you can influence. Love is a pain, it is happiness, love is every emotion you can feel but knowing that it is the right decision. When a mother has a child, that is true love. She feels fear, she experiences pain, she feels the doubtfullness of her strength her child, but she knows that she loves that child she just delivered to the world and knows that she would jump between them and any danger that comes along. If you are not scared of what you have, or don't feel like you can equal their greatness, that is love.
     What is hate? Is it disliking something? opposite of love?
I think hate is a useless feeling, an over used word.Just because you disagree with something, and dislike something, it does not mean you hate. Hate is one of the strongest words you can use. When you tell someone you hate them, you can not take that back. You are telling them that they are the worse thing in the world. They are the bottom of your list and that you don't think they should exist. I can not bring myself to tell someone I hate them, it is not fair for them and I do not have that power to belittle that person.
     Forgiveness is the hardest emotion\action for any human to use. when someone has done you wrong or hurt your feelings, most of the time they will ask for your forgiveness. Humans will always want to forgive but don't know the proper way to forgive. I know from past experiences when I said I forgave them for what they did, i didnt. I thought I wanted to, I meant to forgive them, I even tried forcing myself to. Forgiveness is not an act you can decide when it happens.Foregiveness is an act that takes time and trust. Overtime that wrong dueing that your friend did will pass and will eventually be over, but the hurt feelings and the pain that it caused will last longer. Don't let the wrong dueng take over you, don't let it be the reason you "hate".  Don't lie to that person and tell them that you forgave them when you still feel that pain. Be honest with that person and tell them that you are hurt and tell them it will take time to forgive and will need to rebuild that trust.
     I know this was not that well written, but hey, I am on lunch and using my phone. My next blog will be motivation and motivating. Thank you all for your  support and thanks for being here.

Musically Yours,
Shelden.